Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC's video: My Trauma Has Ruined My Relationships: Destructive Patterns Psychotherapy Crash Course

*Slow upload tonight but I made it before 11pm eastern time! LOL Thank you for your votes! won for tonight. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Relationships are often built on the basis of an individual's upbringing and the relational experiences that individual experienced over time. When the relational experiences of the individual is traumatic it can seem impossible to make things work. Research suggests that when children are expsed to destructive relational patterns they often end up growing up "re-creating" those same destructive patterns in their own relationships. Ruined relationships are often the result of destructive patterns created in relationships. These destructive patterns are toxic, unhealthy, and immature. Destructive patterns are also complicated to identify and fix in some cases. Sadly, trauma is often at the core of destructive patterns in relationships and until that trauma is explored and healed, the relationship will remain poor. In this video, I discuss common relational patterns that is present in relationships where one or both individuals have unhealed and unprocessed trauma. Discussed in this video: Start 0:00 Relational patterns 2:11 Chaotic & racey 3:13 Impulsive & short-lived 4:32 Promiscuity & addiction 5:19 Codependency 6:07 Cycle of abuse 7:21 Pure manipulation 7:53 Fear & threats 8:56 Hope & fantasy 9:49 ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to subscribe for more videos: 👩‍💻 http://www.youtube.com/TamaraHtherapist *New videos Wednesday, Friday and/or Sunday, EST. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- *TRAUMA PLAYLISTS: -https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_4Wq-LrWc3piWqkmeYaa7CIfeAC5-7LJ -Healing trauma in stages: https://youtu.be/JW1xWo6zfFw -https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_4Wq-LrWc3piWqkmeYaa7CIfeAC5-7LJ Music: ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 🎵 Track Info: -All Stars - Patrick Patrikios ---------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- ----Contact me------- I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 12 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at contact@anchoredinknowledge.com. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/therapisttee Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Blog - https://blogs.psychcentral.com/caregivers ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved.