Amy North's video: Make Him Forget His Ex For GOOD

-----Make Him Forget His Ex----------- Watch My FREE Full Video Tutorial Here: http://www.coachnorth.com/texting We’ve all been there. You’re with a new guy and you find out that he had a bad breakup recently. What’s worse, he’s still hung up on his ex. Yikes! All the best guys will have high quality women in their past but when the ghosts of girlfriends past are still haunting your relationship, you need to take action. One, He talks to her If he’s still in regular contact with his ex, he still calls her on the phone, texts her, comments on her social media, likes all her posts, helps her move, this is a red flag. Unless things are ancient history, this is a sign that things are not quite finished between the two of them. Two, He talks about her People from our past are a part of our story and there’s no reason to hide that but if all of his stories begin and end with his ex then she’s still on his mind. Even if it seems like he has a good reason to be talking about her, the real truth is that he can’t help it because he can’t stop thinking about her. Three, He keeps comparing you to her Comparing you to his ex or any other women, even if the comparison is favourable, is a bad behaviour that speaks to his character in more ways than one. We all do it on occasion, it’s human nature but the fact that he feels it’s acceptable shows a lack of respect for you and the women in his past. You wouldn’t want him to be talking about you with other girls, right? Four, They have unfinished business Did one of them cheat? Did they have a terrible breakup? Is her stuff still hanging around at his house? Whatever loose ends are still holding the two of them together, this continued connection is often a sign of continued feelings. Five, He hates her Love and hate really are two sides of the same coin. You may think that him being angry at his ex is a great sign for the two of you but in fact it may mean that he still has feelings. Think of your exes that you have no interest in being with again. You don’t hate them. You could probably have a cup of coffee together and feel nothing in particular. This is because you don’t feel anything for them anymore. Six, He had a recent breakup The more recent their breakup was the more likely he’s not quite over his ex, even if he’s not aware of it. In this case, it’s understandable. Avoid spending every waking moment together and fulfilling his every sexual fantasy if you don’t want to fall into the role of rebound girl. Take things slow and build something real or you may find yourself becoming his latest ex. Seven, He’s told you he’s not over her This one is super important. If he’s open about not being over his ex it can mean a few different things. Obviously he could be being honest but some guys will use a recent breakup as an excuse to be disrespectful, noncommittal, or otherwise shady. Second, never bring up his ex You don’t want to be part of the problem so keep her name out of your mouth. It will just make you look insecure or like you’re trying too hard to be cool about it. There’s really no good that can come of it. Next, learn from their mistakes Obviously don’t break the second rule by asking about what went wrong but if he freely offers information about why they broke up, listen carefully. This information can be very valuable moving forward. Don’t try to compete with her If you start competing with her, you’ve already lost. All you’re doing is making her a part of your relationship. You’re giving her power and that’s not helpful. He’s with you, not her. Remember that. Don’t be his therapist It may seem like you can help him by being a shoulder to cry on and letting him vent about his ex to “get it out of his system”. In reality, this is doing damage by allowing her to dominate your time together. You don’t want him to associate you with her in any way. With that in mind, make sure he knows that bringing her up all the time isn’t okay with you and that if he has unfinished business with her he should talk to his friends or a therapist about it. Give Him Space One of the things that makes a guy pine for his ex is that she’s unattainable. This is a powerful psychological motivator for certain guys. But you can use this trigger to your advantage too. Don’t ignore his messages for days but do spend time apart and make him work to see you from time to time by having plans and other things in your life to keep you busy. Just a little bit of a chase might be what he’s missing. Establish boundaries Don’t nag, pout, or yell but make it clear to him that you’re not interested in talking about his ex. And if he still has a close relationship with an ex it’s okay to express your concerns and tell him that it upsets you. Sometimes this is the wake up call guys need to realize that their relationship with their ex isn’t healthy or fair to you. Thanks for watching, Youtube!