Amy North's video: What To Do When Your Boyfriend Lies To You

http://www.CoachNorth.com/ --- What To Do When Your Boyfriend Lies To You Finding out your boyfriend lied to you can be devastating. On one hand you’re angry about him being dishonest with you, and on the other, you’re probably pretty upset, or maybe even feeling betrayed or let down. The good news is there’s usually a reason behind why your man felt the need to lie in the first place, and knowing it can help prevent further dishonesty down the road… if you can forgive him. But we’ll get to that soon. Hey YouTube, Amy North here, welcome to my channel. Seeing as you’re watching this video, you’ve probably been in a situation where you found out your guy was lying to you, which means you know how much it sucks, and how hard overcoming it can be. Before I start talking about what you should do if you find yourself dealing with a lying boyfriend, I want to ask you something. Have you ever ending a relationship because of lying? To answer, simply click yes or no in the top right hand corner of this video. I would love to hear from you and participating will give me some insight for future videos. Also, if you answered yes in the poll here, then I hope what you’re about to learn can help you down the road if you find yourself faced with a dishonest partner. If you answered no, well stay tuned, because you’re going to learn some tips that will hopefully put an end to you having to face that sort of situation again. So without further adieu, what should you do if your boyfriend lies to you? Well, the first thing is to find out why he lied to you. Typically, there are three reasons for doing so. The first reason is to make himself look good. Meaning if he’s trying to impress you, or feels like you’re out of his league, the he may try to make himself seem greater than he really is. This kind of lying usually happens early on in a relationship, or if one person is feeling insecure. As innocent as it may seem, making up stories to make himself sound good, or fabricating situations so you’ll think he’s someone he’s not, is still not healthy in a romantic relationship. Again, his intentions may be good, but if he’s only this amazing guy in made up stories, then how great is he actually? For instance, maybe he tells you about worldly travels to sounds more fascinating, or perhaps he lies and says he’s up for a big promotion at work to make you think he’s really ambitious or accomplished. The problem with these sort of lies is that the truth usually shines through. When it does you’ll have to decide whether or not the lies he told were too deceptive, or if you can let it go. The second reason men lie is because they’re afraid of how you’ll react if faced with the truth. In this kind of situation your guy is hiding something from you because he’s worried that you’ll freak out, get upset, or be disappointed if he tells you the truth. Usually these lies are intended to be harmless, and are told to prevent a fight. For example, lying about why he’s late, saying he loves the burnt dinner you’ve cooked, cutting the number of beers he had with the guys in half, or saying you’re the only woman he finds attractive… these are the kinds of lies he’s telling to be kind or keep the peace. Sometimes it’s easy to get past these lies, other times, it can be tough to let them go – especially if these are ongoing and get you doubting the other things he’s telling you. If you want your man to be completely honest with you, then it’s important that you take a long, hard look at the way you behave and react when he does tell you things you may not be happy hearing. For instance, do you yell or scream when he shares news you don’t like? Are you quick to get defensive or do you blow up on him? If your boyfriend is afraid of your reaction, it’s likely the reason he’s not always honest with you. If you do want complete transparency from him, then you’ll need to prove to him that you can handle the truth, and that he won’t have to deal with the consequences of sharing it with you. Remember, men despise drama and will do whatever necessary to avoid it. If you’re interested in learning some powerful methods for communicating with even the most stubborn men then check out the free video presentation on my site, coachnorth.com. Again, the URL is www.coachnorth.com, and I’ll post it in the description below for you as well. *** More from Amy North: *** How to Keep A Man: http://www.coachnorth.com Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: https://plus.google.com/116823069948654495789 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.north.798