Amy North's video: 10 Signs He s Afraid to Fall In Love With You

10 Signs He's Afraid to Fall In Love With You - www.CoachNorth.com So you’re trying to create something real with a guy and you always seem to hit it off. So why have you been unable to really make that connection? Quite often the reason that it’s not working is that he’s actually afraid to fall in love with you. In this video I cover all the reasons why he might be afraid to fall in love with you, and how to change his mind. Hi, I’m Amy North, author of Text Chemistry and The Devotion System. I’ve been offering dating advice for women right here on youtube for almost five years now. In that time, I’ve noticed that men and women seem to respond to love quite differently. While women may be a bit too eager to love, and like to jump right into a relationship right away, men are often more guarded and sometimes even feel threatened by feelings of love. That’s one of the main reasons they pull away from a relationship and play the field rather than settling down. Some say that this is due to biology--men are incentivized to be with many different women in order to spread their genes. Others say it’s because men mature more slowly than women. I say whatever the reason is, we need to acknowledge that this is definitely a very real thing for many men. So let’s talk about some signs to look for that could mean that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. 1. He wants to keep things casual This is a common tactic by men who are afraid to fall in love. I won’t say that all men who want to keep things casual are doing it to avoid falling in love, because plenty of men actually are just looking for a casual relationship. But if the two of you have been dating for more than a few months and he’s still not willing to call you his girlfriend, introduce you to his friends, or otherwise move the relationship forward--especially when the two of you are really connecting--this is a sure sign that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. 2. He doesn’t talk about the future This is another clear sign that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. While it’s nice to live in the moment as much as possible, the complete absence of the future from any conversation is a sign that he’s afraid to fall in love. Why? Because if he was to consider the future, a future where the two of you were moving forward in the relationship, then he’d have to face the idea that things were getting more serious and thus, he may fall in love with you. So if he doesn’t ever make plans more than a week in advance and you never know what’s coming next, then this is a possible sign that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. 3. He sends mixed signals If your guy is sweet and loving with you one minute and then cold and distant the next, this could be a sign that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. Men act this way because they’re fighting an internal battle with themselves: the part of them that really likes you and wants to get closer, and the commitment phobic part of them that is telling them to run for the hills. He’ll never tell you this but you can see it coming out in his behaviour and it means that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. 4. He just got out of a serious relationship This one is less of a sign and more of a red flag. If you know that he was in a serious relationship just before the two of you met, then there’s a very good chance that he’s afraid to fall in love with you. Think about how he talks about his ex. Is there bad blood there? Did he trust her and then get his heart broken? Or did he run away when things got too real? Whatever happened, this could be a case of “once bitten, twice shy.” Is it any wonder he’d be afraid to open himself up to love again and risk being hurt? 5. He says he has trust issues Fear of being hurt can also be a source of major trust issues. If he lets you know that it’s not easy for him to trust someone, then you’ll know that he’s going to have a very difficult time falling in love. http://www.CoachNorth.com ----- *** More from Amy North: *** How to Get A Man: http://www.coachnorth.com/ LoveLearnings: https://www.lovelearnings.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amynorthdating/