Amy North's video: Why Tinder And Texting Are Totally Different

http://www.CoachNorth.com -- Why Tinder And Texting Are Totally Different Check out the full article -- https://www.amynorth.com/tinder-and-texting/ I’m Amy North. I’m a dating coach and texting expert and I’ve spent years studying texting and online dating because I think they’re such valuable ways to win the hearts of men for good. Stick around for more details of just go to AttractionTexts.com and get the inside scoop on how and when to text guys to get them obsessed with you (and chase you like there’s no tomorrow!). 1. On tinder you both know you’re attracted to each other. Here’s one for the Tinder column. If you two match on Tinder, you know that you have mutual attraction and you’re there for romantic reasons. 2. Text your answer back quicker Tinder you’re not expected to message back as fast as over text. Only 20% of people on Tinder are active daily whereas 97% of people text on a daily basis. The average response time for a text message from guys is 3 minutes But on Tinder, only 7% of guys even send a message to matches. 3. Texting is more intimate You may text way more people than you talk to on Tinder but on Tinder the people you’re talking to are all romantic interests. When you’re still talking on Tinder you’re in competition with a lot of other girls so things are more superficial and you’re both still trying to feel out if you’re compatible or not. 4. With texting, you can send pictures On tinder they removed the photo message for obvious reasons. Over text you’re able to share photos and memes and more. This allows us to communicate in all sorts of different ways. Send a picture of you out and about. Send him a video of your dog. This is a great way to be memorable if you find you don’t always know what to say. 5. On tinder they’re looking at your bio and your bio and photos There are a few reasons that this creates a problem. They can see if you’re adding photos or changing up your bio and this can actually act as a deterrent. I don’t know about you, but if I think a guy is constantly tweaking his tinder profile I get the sense that he’s something of a player or at least he’s a bit too into Tinder. There’s also some scientific evidence to support the idea that the more often a guy sees a picture of a girl, the less attracted to her he is. Think of it like a marriage. How many couples stop having sex and no longer find each other attractive after a few years together? This can happen on a much smaller scale on Tinder. If he looks at the same old pictures of you again and again, he’s going to get familiar with you and less interested in meeting you in real life. But over text all you get is the conversation. This makes him more eager to see you in real life as he can’t just look at a picture of you whenever he wants. This means more dates when you switch over to text. So how can you move from Tinder to texting and up your chances of getting a date? It’s pretty simple. First off, you need to establish contact with the guy on Tinder. Don’t just send him your number right away. That makes you seem like a bot and most guys aren’t interested in dating russian spammers. In any case, get a back and forth going. Keep things fun and funny and don’t go for boring “how was your day” “what are your hobbies” type questions. Once you’ve had one positive interaction that is memorable, you can move things over to text. So here’s your next move. Just send this exact message to get him to text you. “Hey, you seem really cool but I never check my tinder. Here’s my phone number, drop me a text if you’d like to chat more :)” I promise, this works on almost any guy. And the guys it doesn’t work on are the ones who aren’t serious anyway. Guys are flattered to get your number and they take the conversation more seriously once you’ve taken that next step. This tiny step forward is a great way to bridge the gap between tinder and a first date and it shows him you’re truly interested in getting to know him. If you’re looking for messages to send to a guy once you’re texting, you’re in luck. I’ve got a free video that will teach you the best texts to send to guys to get them hooked on you. Go to AttractionTexts.com for heart pounding texts you won’t see anywhere else. So let’s recap: texting is better than tinder because it’s more comfortable, less competitive and more expressive. To get him to text you, just ask. To learn to text better, go to AttractionTexts.com There you go, Youtube. Thanks for watching. Would you rather talk to a guy on tinder or over text? Let me know in the comments and don’t forget to hit that like button and subscribe to my channel. If you do, you’ll see me real soon. Bye. *** More from Amy North: *** How to Get A Man: http://www.coachnorth.com Love Learnings: https://www.lovelearnings.com Google+: https://plus.google.com/116823069948654495789 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.north.798