Amy North's video: How To Be Wife Material He ll BRAG About You

How To Be Wife Material (He'll BRAG About You!) ----- http://www.CoachNorth.com ----- Sick of short term relationships and dates that go nowhere? Do you want a relationship with a future? Hi, I’m Amy North. As a love and dating coach, I know that for many of us, the end goal is marriage. And for him to get down on one knee and promise to be with you until the very end, he needs to know that you can be the kind of woman he’d like to spend his life with. It’s not about how attracted he is to you, or how much he likes you. While those things are important, they can both be present without him seeing you as “wife material” Let me explain. Being wife material is about how well you fit in with the vision he has of his own future. If he can picture the two of you sitting together on a porch at the age of 80, then you’re wife material. If he can’t imagine the two of you together in two years, you’re not. So if you’re not currently there, how can you get him to see you differently? Well the truth is there are a few things to keep in mind if you want him to see you as wife material. But first, let’s talk about what guys don’t look for. I’ve heard some truly terrible advice on this topic so I wanted to set things straight. Men do not need a woman to look a certain way to see her as wife material! I think we all know beautiful women who can’t make a relationship last more than a few weeks. Then there’s the idea that men want a woman who is ambitious and driven and “push them to be their best selves.” The truth is, most men are happy with where they’re at in life and just want a woman they can be comfortable with who treats them right. Men also don’t want a woman who is subservient and submissive. The truth is that your assertiveness, or lack thereof, really isn’t what wife material is made of. So now that we know what doesn’t matter, let’s talk about what does matter. Here are seven ways to make him see you as wife material 1. Don’t make commitment your number one priority This is something that I have to caution women about all the time. There are plenty of women out there who are more focused on finding ANYONE that they don’t worry about who they’re actually chasing after. If this sounds like you, then I’d caution you to slow things down and chill out a little. The reason is that a man can tell when you’re more interested in a relationship itself than you are in him in particular and it’s a huge turn off. So instead of rushing through the stages of a relationship, take your time to really get to know him and see if he’s really the right fit for you. This kind of attitude is attractive to a guy because it shows him that you have self respect and that you’re looking for the real deal. He’ll love to know that you’re choosing him based on what he’s really like deep down, not just because he’s a warm body. 2. Let him chase you This goes hand in hand with point one on this list. If you want a guy to really want you, you need to activate his natural hunter’s instinct. And you can’t do that if you’re too open and willing to connect with him early on in the relationship. Make him work for your love and attention at first and so when you do finally let him in, he’ll never want to let you go. Accomplishing this just means allowing yourself a little selfishness early on in the relationship. Don’t rush to fit yourself into his schedule. Don’t text him back right this second. And make him impress you, rather than the other way around. 3. Be low maintenance Being taken care of can be nice, but if you expect him to look after your every need, pretty soon he’s going to get tired of being with you. It’s the women who require less from him that he’ll be drawn to spend more time with. So make sure you know how to change your own tire. Don’t call him all the time to help you out of trouble and just generally try to stand on your own two feet as much as possible. There is a fine line here as men do like to feel needed, just don’t overdo it. Let him come to your rescue every once in awhile and when he does, make sure he knows you appreciate him for it. *** More from Amy North: *** How to Get A Man: http://www.coachnorth.com/ LoveLearnings: https://www.lovelearnings.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amynorthdating/