Brittany Valadez's video: They Say They re a Christian So Should You Date Them

You won’t date a non-Christian. But, the person you like says they’re a Christian. Maybe you even met them in church. But maybe they’re pushing your boundaries. Maybe they love the party life, speak with vulgar language, are prideful and arrogant…the list could go on. Basically, if they didn’t tell you they were a Christian, you would never know. So should you date them? No, not while their heart isn’t for Christ, based on the fruit they produce. I explained why in my video. The best thing to do is to let them find the Lord on their own. Pray for them. Treat them kindly, but don’t missionary date. They’re not going to find the Lord if you’re allowing them to live as they are while you give them all the benefits of a relationship. In order for a relationship to flourish, both persons need to love the Lord first to love the other correctly. Pray that the Lord soften they’re heart and that they return to him. Remember, you aren’t judging them by turning them away. You are actually loving them by caring for their spiritual health, and yours as well. The Lord loves them and you. Leave it all to him.