Cluster B & Me's video: Narcissistic Abuse: The Projection Reframing and Gaslight Cocktail

The Projection, Re-framing & Gaslight Cocktail is a highly manipulative tool used by most Cluster B's (narcissists/sociopath/malignant borderlines/psychopaths). Every Cluster B is slightly different, and some use this technique more effectively than others; the more covert a Cluster B is when using this manipulative technique, the more effective it is -- because the basis by which it is founded is rooted in the other person not being aware of it happening. Therefore, the more obvious a Cluster B is when using this technique to manipulate, the more likely their partner, child, or the person in which they are doing it to will be aware of what is happening and will fall less victim to it. Being covert adds to the brainwashing / mind-control element of the psychology behind it, thus creating the foundation of a person who is having narcissistic abuse inflicted onto them. --------------------------- If you need support and guidance -- if you want to heal and you need help in transforming the enormous hurt that going through narcissistic abuse / being close to a Cluster B Personality Disordered person has on us into something positive and using that to create a happier and more successful/fulfilling life, please feel free to email me at LifeCoachAutumnBlake@gmail.com. I know how you feel, I know how hard it is -- whether you only just uncovered the truth, or it's been several years since you became aware of the reality of what you endured and who that person really was, the fall-out of it can be extremely hard to overcome. The consequences are great for everyone who's gone through this. We often can find it difficult for the people in our lives to understand and offer us the support and validation we need -- because unless someone has themselves gone through this and directly experienced narcissistic abuse and/or a close connection with a narcissist/sociopath/psychopath/borderline, they are unable to truly understand and grasp the depth that this has on our psyche, our souls, our perception of the world, our perception on ourselves, our hearts. This type of abuse and manipulation, and this type of relationship, exists at the very deepest energetic level in our being and resides within us psychologically and emotionally at the very most core of our subconscious mind. I became a life coach in order to be less restricted and limited in my approach, as I would be/was in mainstream therapy as a psychologist. I think we often need more support than one hour a week, and it's unrealistic to expect clients to only need support on weekday work hours. To this extent as a life coach I've been able to help my clients more often throughout the week during periods where more support is needed. And by taking clients both in-person and remotely (via telephone/Skype/email/online private interactive interfaces) I'm able to offer clients support and guidance beyond the typical daytime hours; in the evenings, on the weekends, on holidays -- because, as we all know, often it's these times, when we are off work and living our lives, that we often need the most help. I work with and have worked with clients from all over the world. I think we are complex, complicated beings; we cannot heal and transform our lives without looking at the therapy model from a comprehensive place. And so over the period of months or years that I work with a client, I help coach my clients in all areas of life where they want to grow and transform; emotional, psycho-dynamic, career, financial, love, relationships, business, family, friendships, dating, couples work, health and wellness, and over time to develop an integrated, happy, fulfilling life. Feel free to contact me anytime at LifeCoachAutumnBlake@gmail.com. Much love :) Autumn