David Tian, Ph.D.'s video: What Most Guys Gals Really Need Is Therapy

In my coaching practice, I see a lot of clients who think they just need information, knowledge, or some step-by-step how-to tactics. That’s almost never what they need. (There are rare exceptions, of course.) What they often most need is therapy. Once I realized this years ago, I embarked on my own training as a therapist and developed my own therapeutic processes that work best for my clients. . For men struggling to get better with women, there usually only two possible outcomes: (1) He works really hard at it and successfully internalizes the mindsets, behavior patterns, verbal skills, etc. But then all that does is create for him a new false self. Or, (2) his core insecurities, toxic shame, or neurotic anxieties block and prevent him from ever getting good with women. Either way, he will need to get therapy. . The optimal time to learn dating skills is AFTER you’ve made significant progress in healing and growing from your core issues. You’ll discover that progress will be much faster because instead of creating a new false self, you’ll be developing a useful and effective persona under the leadership of your true self. . This short preview clip is from the seminar video: "Modern Mating Explained 1: Growth & Maturity for Reformed Players & PUAs (Pick Up Artists)" https://www.davidtianphd.com/dating/modern-mating-explained/ Link to full video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KG2HACKbFu8 For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D., has helped hundreds of thousands of people from over 87 countries find happiness, success, and fulfilment in their social, professional, and love lives. His presentations - whether keynotes, seminars, or workshops - leave clients with insights into their behaviour, psychology, and keys to their empowerment. His training methodologies are the result of over a decade of coaching and education of thousands of students around the world. Thank you for watching this video. Keep up with the videos I post on the channel, subscribe, and share your learnings with those who need to hear it. I'd love to hear what you think, so please take a second and say hi! Connect with David Tian here: Website: https://www.davidtianphd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/david.tian.aura DTPHD Podcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dtphdpodcast/ Man Up Show Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupcommunity/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheAuraUniversity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidtianphd/ Podcast: https://www.davidtianphd.com/dtphdpodcast Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/the-dtphd-podcast Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/davidtianphd Itunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ph/podcast/david-tian-ph-d-hosts-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-good/id1355984770?mt=2 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/david-tian-phd-hosts-the-dtphd-podcast-on-truth-love-and?refid=stpr IheartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-The-DTPHD-Podcast-w-28865846/ Anchor: https://anchor.fm/davidtian Medium: https://medium.com/@davidtian Twitter: https://twitter.com/davidtianphd