Good vibez's video: Why it is More Blessed to Give than to Receive

Why it is More Blessed to Give than to Receive Visit us!!! Think less, Live more. www.goodvibez.net Visit us: https://www.facebook.com/Good-Vibez-915613645162744/?ref=hl 1. We’re actually happier when we give money away. Watch any hour of prime-time TV, and you’ll see 18 minutes of commercials that all say the same basic message: if only you buy this particular product, then you will be happier. If only you get that new truck. If only you get that new phone. But that’s not actually how real life works. You get a new phone and six months later it’s obsolete. So you need a new one, and then another new one, and then another new one. The cycle of acquiring possessions never ends. A new truck is nice, but if we’re looking to it to satisfy us and give us a sense of security and significance, then we’re looking in the wrong place. Elizabeth Dunn, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia, conducted a variety of studies and concluded that once routine bills are paid, pro-social spending actually makes people happier than personal spending. In one straightforward experiment, researchers gave five and twenty dollar bills to groups of college students. Half the participants were instructed to spend the money on themselves. The other half were to spend the money on toys for children and other charitable giving. Afterward, participants who spent the money on others reported enhanced mood, increased sense of meaning and significance, and greater overall feelings of well-being. Conclusion: It pays to give. 2. When we give, we participate in what we deem is important. When I was 22 I was out of college and taking a gap year. I’d traveled a bit overseas by then and had seen the economic breach between how people in first and third world countries lived. One night after my shift working as a waiter at a restaurant, I was up late, hanging out watching TV. A commercial came on for a child sponsorship organization. I recognized the name of the organization and knew it was reputable. But I dismissed the idea of sponsoring a child with the thought that I wasn’t making much money myself. Participation in one of those organizations was only for older, financially established people, right? Wrong. Over the next few days, I couldn’t get the idea out of my head. I knew kids were living in impoverished conditions throughout the developing world — I’d seen them firsthand. Giving those kids a hand up was something I deemed important. It was within my grasp. I couldn’t help all the kids on the planet, but I could help one. A week or two later, the same commercial came on. That night I wrote down the 800-number for the organization. The next day I called and sponsored a child. It turned out to be a pretty cool thing. I sponsored a 10-year-old boy in rural India named Kamal. Over the years we wrote letters back and forth through the translators in the program. He eventually grew up, and thanks to the program was able to go on to higher education, get a good job, and lift himself out of poverty. I like to think I had a hand in helping him along the way. I didn’t change the world. But I did do something. The point? Anybody can wear a tee shirt with an altruistic slogan on the front. But ask a man to show you his wallet. Where his money goes is the truer indication of what he deems important. If you care about something, then actually give to it. 3. Giving releases us from the power of money. A few years back I worked with an author who described how he knew at a young age that he was strongly attracted to making money. There’s nothing wrong with that, but for the profession he was headed into, he wanted to ensure that he would never be locked into that mindset. He wanted to ensure that money never held power over him. Why? Because if money held power over him, he reasoned, then he would be tempted to make decisions only with economic gain in mind. To combat the pull of money, he conducted a series of personal experiments. He started to give things away, all the while progressing in his business. The items were small at first. A sweater he valued. A book he enjoyed and wanted to keep. A gift certificate to a fancy restaurant. At first, he described how he felt troubled, even disappointed, at the idea of giving things away. But he began to notice a strange pattern: though we should give strive to give without expecting a reward, rewards — tangible and otherwise — often come in return. For whatever item this author gave away, he always seemed to gain back more. Sometimes it was simply self-respect. Sometimes it was a boosted mood. Sometimes it was a returned favor. Sometimes it was a happier client, who would then go on to bring increased business traffic back his direction.