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Happily-Committed's video: How To Make A Boring Relationship Fun Again Learn How To Fix A Boring Relationship

@How To Make A Boring Relationship Fun Again | Learn How To Fix A Boring Relationship
Free Quiz: Are You A Quality Partner? https://form.happilycommitted.com/sf/01dee9c7 Subscribe to Happily Committed Here: https://bit.ly/2QTt3XA LINKS: [ INFIDELITY VIDEO SEMINAR | How To Cope And Heal After Infidelity ] https://bit.ly/39gnJEe [ ATTRACTION TOOLKIT | How To Maximize Your Attraction Power ] https://bit.ly/2FYNxrZ [ INSECURITY TOOLKIT | How To Overcome Insecurities In Love ] https://bit.ly/30xG9NK [ MOVING ON TOOLKIT | Help Moving On After Heartbreak ] https://bit.ly/2R2V7rA ________ How To Make A Boring Relationship Fun Again | Learn How To Fix A Boring Relationship This video in particular is how to spice up a boring relationship. I think most people in a long term relationship or marriage can agree that it's not always fireworks and rainbows and unicorns and long walks on the beach and exciting moments. Sometimes it's pretty boring. Sometimes you're in a relationship and your - you look over at your partner and you're like, "You're still here? We're still doing this? We're not having fun anymore." But if you're watching this video, it's because you want to. If you're watching this video it's because you want to make a boring relationship less boring. And if you are here, I am here to help. When it comes to making a relationship less boring, there are three things to consider. One, you are half of this relationship. So if this relationship is boring, it's because you're boring. It's because you're not trying and it's because maybe other things have gotten in the way of you having a good time. If you want to make your relationship less boring, it starts with you. It starts with the way you choose to spend your time. So my first tip or recommendation with how to make a boring relationship less boring is by not being boring yourself. I invite you to make a bucket list for yourself. Make a list of goals that you've been meaning to accomplish. Now is the time to pick up new hobbies, incorporate new activities, try new things. If you, as 50% of the relationship, are not boring, your relationship can't be boring. And this leads perfectly into tip number two. Tip number two is to lead by example. If you are not boring, it will inspire your partner to be less boring. It will inspire your partner to accompany you on all of these adventures, on the journey, on the fun! And so if you want your relationship to be less boring you need to show it how to be less boring. I want you to make a list of your priorities in order of urgency. Where does your relationship fall on this list? If it falls high up the list - number one, number two, number three - then make the time to make it work because the health of your relationship depends on you making this time. Tip number three on how to make a boring relationship less boring. Stick to your changes. If you try something once and give up on it, you might as well just throw in the towel on this attempt. So when you start something, maintain it. Commit to changing. Commit to being less boring, and then give your relationship the opportunity to catch up. It may not happen overnight. These things take time. So if you're serious about incorporating these tips. If you're serious about making your relationship less boring, stick to the plan of making it less boring. If your partner in the beginning says, "Well listen, honey, you go do your thing. I'm not gonna join you because I'm too - still too tired, and I'm so overworked, and I don't have the time," don't bug them in the beginning. Don't beg them, or get frustrated with them, and say, "Well you are keeping us boring." Let them watch you transform. And this will automatically and organically inspire them to transform with you. And to transform the relationship into something that is less boring with you. So it's not about making them do it. It's about them doing it all by themselves. Them wanting to join you on this journey, together, without you having to pull teeth. I know right now many of you might be watching this video saying, "That's just not possible, this isn't gonna work." Don't knock it till you try it! As a relationship coach who has personally coached over a thousand people on relationship recovery, I would like to challenge that scoff! I'd like to challenge you when you say that it's not gonna work. Give it your all. Start with 60 days, and let me know how it goes. I invite you to leave a comment under this video. I'd love to hear about the things that you've tried to spice up your relationship, to make it less boring. What has worked, what hasn't worked, what would you do differently. I'm here to read about what's going on, I am here to help. Adrian and I have committed our lives to keeping you HAPPILY COMMITTED so invite us in, let us know what's going on, let us know how we can help and visit happilycommitted.com to learn more about our offerings, and how you can turn your relationship around just by turning you around.

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