Ishita Gupta's video: Want to feel proud of yourself

Full post: http://bit.ly/2mPAKvC Sign up for the Free Call, 5 Powerful Mindsets to Get Real Results in Your Life & Business Today. WHEN: Tuesday March 28th 2017 TIME: 8:00pm EST SIGN UP HERE: http://ishitagupta.com/5powerfulmindsets My approach to hard, stressful moments in life is, “Cool. What a blessing to see what my next level of development is. How great that I can see where I now need to build capacity.” I’m a big fan of viewing hard moments as opportunities. But going through these moments genuinely sucks. So what to do when you WANT to feel confident but you really just feel small? Or if you WANT to talk to people but you really just want to hide? You PRACTICE. Practice is a great baseline. Why? The reason is you stop internalizing - making everything about you and what YOU did right or wrong. Judging yourself like this has the opposite effect of what you want - it STOPS you from taking action when/if WHEN you get a bad result or fail. Today’s video is about practice and taking ACTION. I tell you how focusing on ACTION, not on OUTCOMES leads to you feel successful and proud. Here’s what I share: You can only control the action you take, NOT the outcomes. Repeat: You cannot control the outcome, though you might *think* you can. If you focus on outcomes, you blame and criticize. Both these things aren’t necessary anyway. If something goes well, you say “I did something right!” If it doesn’t go right you say, “I’m stupid.” You complain and blame, and none of it’s real. Action gives you agency - at every point you can ACT to change something. You always have something to celebrate because even if you don’t get the right outcome, you can always take more action and celebrate your effort. You feel better overall and stop internalizing/freaking out. God’s honest truth. :) You become someone who ACTS, not who WAITS for things to happen. Wait wait wait. You become someone who creates opportunity for yourself and others. Your outcomes improve in quality AND frequency. If you always base your feeling of happiness, pride, and accomplishment on outcomes, your life and business journey will feel harder than they have to. Here’s to practice making us….better at practicing. Show me a perfect person and I’m running as fast as I can in the opposite direction. :) If you liked the video, subscribe to my Youtube channel, give it a thumbs up and leave me a comment. I totally lurrrrve hearing from you! If you want more free videos and articles like this to help you rocket propel your life, or you know someone who needs to hear this - sign up for free at http://ishitagupta.com. And remember, share this with your family and friends, especially if they're going through what we talk about in today's video. We ALL struggled with things in life, so when you come across something useful, don't keep it to yourself, help someone else get freedom too!