Kate Spring's video: Why You re Still Single

----------------------Go to: http://www.KateSpring.com/FREE ------------------------ --------------------Go Watch My Free Full Video Presentation!----------------------- Hey there, and welcome to my channel! My name is Kate Spring and I’m a dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. For today’s video, as you can tell by the title, we’re going to look at some of the reasons why you’re still single. These are general reasons why a lot of people, in this day and age, are still single. Before we get any further, I want to remind you to subscribe to my channel where you can stay up to date with my latest videos and also leave any of your questions in the comments section below where I will get back to you, personally, as soon as I can. 1. Expectations are too high: One of the main reasons why you’re single is that your expectations are too high and even unrealistic. Maybe you have one of those check lists that sounds like this: brunette, thin, not taller than me, can cook, has her own money, is the perfect mix of sexy and cute, loves sex, likes all of my friends, is independent, etc. Everyone kind of has some sort of list. But if you’re list is too extensive and specific, you might be setting yourself up for disappointment, which is a definite contributor to your non-existent relationship status. These lists are problematic, think about a woman’s potential list and what it’s like to live up to other people’s unrealistic standards? It’s quite off putting. Do you want to try to live up to those standards? What if a woman’s list was to be humble, sexy, confident, adores me, thinks I’m THE MOST beautiful woman in the world, is loyal and committed, but still makes me want him by sometimes ignoring me. Loves to travel, funny, generous, patient, romantic. Etc. Honestly, the list could go on and on. For both men and women. But I think where we’ve gone wrong is that we’re constantly inundated with images and ideas of perfection. The perfect gym body, the perfect gym couple goals, but what we fail to see in our daily social media intake is the quirks and imperfections that each individual has that makes us all unique and differentiates us from the rest of the world. People even think that for relationships to work we need to follow some arbitrary check list that worked for one person, when in reality, you determine what works for you and your partner. Author, Mark Manson, said that “It’s really simple: We all have our own imperfections. Everyone we date also has their own imperfections. Intimacy and romance is determined by people who have comparable and complementary imperfections to one another.” So I guess what I’m trying to say is throw the arbitrary check list out the window. Try and just meet and engage with people for the sake of expanding your horizons. Test yourself by engaging with people who you wouldn’t have before for the sheer purpose of trying to learn a different way of being in the world. And learn some new things about yourself along the way! Open your mind and your preferences. If you guys are still troubled by being single, and you want to learn more about building and maintaining attraction, then head over to katepring.com/free and get yourself a copy of my attraction building handbook that I’m giving away for free. That’s katespring.com/free. 2. You Lack Self- Confidence: If you’ve watched any of my other videos, you would have heard me reference this saying before by Rene Descartes. That saying is “Cogito ergo sum.” I think; therefore, I am. Ralph Waldo Emerson also said another iteration of the same thing when he said that “you are what you think about all day long.” What you think you become. The way that you think and speak about yourself directly correlates to how you carry yourself and how people perceive you. A lot of a lack of self-confidence has to do with fear. I’m afraid, so that must mean that I can’t do this mindset. Ferentez says that, “it’s amazing how easily being afraid translates to ‘There’s no point in trying or believing that success can be achieved.’” Be kind to yourself. We’re all trying our best. When you’re feeling afraid ask yourself what do you have to lose by trying something new and getting out of your comfort zone and the answer should be nothing. Because at the end of the day, whatever happens to you, you will be ok. Alright, YouTube, that’s all I have for you today. I hope that this video helps to give you some of the confidence and a positive mindset to put yourself out there in hopes of finding a special lady. Again, don’t forget to subscribe to my channel where you can stay up to date with my latest videos. And if you want to be notified any time that I release a new video ring the notification bell. And leave me any of your questions in the comments section below. Thanks for watching and I’ll see you in my next video.