Soothing Rainy Sounds's video: How to Date Up

💞Are You Christian? Find the one your soul loves who believes and shares your faith http://bit.ly/2MXV7XD How to Date Up There is only one league. This is how to be in it. From a man who's been up and down, out and out, for the latest in his continuing online series with advice about women. Back when I tended bar, I often served couples, obviously on their first date, as they waited for a table. I took care of them, the way a bartender does, and then retreated to wipe down a highball or cut limes, assessing, all by my lonesome, how the date was going. I figured I could learn from it, get better at charming women, even simply speaking to them. That's how miserable I was at dating then, thinking I might absorb something for my own benefit. I didn't learn much — except don't ever look over a woman's shoulder while she's on a date — so I amused myself by developing my theory that always people dated up or down, from one genetic platform to another. It was my own bar game, to figure out how far off the two people were before they themselves even knew. There were, in the universe I created, no perfect matches. There aren't, on the surface, in any. But for every pair, one of the two people was by necessity "dating up." Usually the man. So I liked to lean on the end of the bar, and determine how far "up" a man could go in terms of whom he'd clamped on his arm for the evening. All this while cutting fruit. So cruel, my assumption that each of us is so limited by the first impression, by what is stock about our appeal or readily apparent in our best efforts. Bloodless. But I was young, I wore a vest to work, and I liked to think I could understand the world in a sidelong glance. Subscribe to VevVork : http://goo.gl/zNQuhE ▶Follow our Instagram cuz it's great: http://bit.ly/2rqRSA8 ▶CHECK THIS MAGICAL TEXT THAT MAKES MEN ADDICTED TO YOU: http://bit.ly/33sDAMM