Lisa Bilyeu's video: The Bold Truth You Need to Hear When Feeling Insecure Tom Bilyeu on Women of Impact

This episode is sponsored by Grubhub. $7 off $12 for new customers with code AFF7 and click the link: https://grubhub.vdcy.net/c/2436313/696696/8310 Do you or your partner struggle with insecurities, doubts, and uncertainties in life? Are you easily overwhelmed and feel like you’ll never be able to overcome such feelings? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by entrepreneur, speaker, host, and husband Tom Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore why you are trapped in a cycle of insecurity and ways you can break out of it. They discuss how a growth mindset leads to turning insecurities into strengths, why you have to own up to your insecurities, how understanding sexuality helps feeling less worried about it, how to let go of the things you can’t control, why you may need to re-prioritize what you value, why your insecurities aren’t sexy, and how to be clear with your partner so you know how to support each other. Check out Tom and Lisa’s ‘Relationship Theory’: youtube.com/channel/UCtHuUTWVRHUXVjmRrvS8WYg SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about dealing with your insecurities and uncertainties. [01:33] Handle It | Tom shares why having a growth mindset is key early into a relationship. [2:49] Own Up | Tom reveals how to identify your insecurities and share them with your partner. [6:20] Identity | Tom reveals how to shift your mindset to deal with your insecurities. [9:3 0] Sexuality | Tom shares the reasons behind why we find each other physically attractive. [12:15] Value | Tom shares his insecurities and how he utilizes them as a strength and force. [ 20:12] Harmless | Tom reveals how men and women have to embrace their aging. [23:26] It’s Not Sexy | Tom shares why wallowing in your insecurities isn’t sexy. [25:53] Articulate | Tom reveals why you have to be tactful and clear with your partner. [29:39] Connect | Tom shares how you can continue to follow him and learn more. [34:09] QUOTES: “There’s two things you should never worry about: the things you can’t change and the things you can. Because if you can’t change it, what’s the point in worrying about it? And if you can change it, just go do something about it.” [9:38] “Men enjoy looking at something that turns them on and women enjoy being the ‘turn on.’” [16:50] “You shouldn’t put yourself in a weak, vulnerable position where you need somebody to echo value back to you. You should not need me to feed you that you are attractive and all that. And at the same time, what kind of person would I be if I don’t do everything I can to make you feel good about yourself across every dimension that a human can feel good about themselves?’ [32:14] FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL