Life Check Yourself's video: 041: How to Stop the Off and On Again Cycle for Good Even It s Been Going On for Years with ...

Listen to the full episode here http://datingwithdignity.libsyn.com/041-how-to-get-out-of-a-romantic-rut-and-into-alignment-with-what-you-want-with-kat There are many ladies who can identify with Kat’s problem in her on again, off again relationship.   If you have ever been strung along by a guy you love it is really important you listen to this episode.    Kat’s On Again Off Again Guy [1:36] Kat is in an on/off relationship. She doesn't know who he sees when they are "off". She says she wants to move on but she is in love with the guy. She just wants to be in a fun relationship with someone who cares about her.  Her guy picks a fight when he wants to go away and then sends a text a few days later. He says he’s done but never allows Kat to move on.   He knows she’ll keep coming back no matter what crap he pulls.     Why Kat Gives Up Her Power and Dignity [7:17] Kat is in a romantic rut. She is giving up all her power and dignity and allowing the guy to push her in one direction and then pull her into another. But, why is she allowing herself to be treated this way?  She feels sad, broken and that she has wasted years on him.  Getting Over A Romantic Rut 1. Write it out.  a. What do you think? b. What do you feel? c. What do you do? 2. Use your Choice Points to get what you want. a. Don’t react, respond. Kat doesn’t realize how much power she has!    Kat’s Vision for a Romantic Future [22:23] It’s extremely important for Kat to get out of this romantic rut and find a partner who wants to be in a loving and committed relationship. She wants someone she can count on to have her back.  Everytime Kat does something not in alignment with this vision she is actively moving away from what she wants.    Make a Connection: Dating with Dignity Website Relationship Coaching with Marni How to Find a Quality Guy Without Going on 200 Dates - FREE Dating with Dignity on Facebook @MarniBattista on Twitter