emlovz • Dating & Relationship Coach for Men's video: She doesn t want a relationship but she likes me what should I do

If you like this video, Subscribe and Share it with your friends. Book a new client Skype session with me at EmLovz.com/book. As a dating coach, I chat with men who have this problem quite often. It can be frustrating, you meet a great girl, you have chemistry, and you want to pursue a relationship. She, on the other hand, does not want to get serious. This isn’t a woman who is simply putting you in the friend-zone, it’s a woman who reciprocates your romantic feelings. But when it comes to taking things to a more serious level, she hits the brakes. WELL, WHAT DO YOU DO? If you’ve chatted with friends, they probably want you to steer clear. You may feel like getting into a relationship is a lost cause. And, in some cases, that is true. However, there is also the possibility that you can overcome her objections! To do so, you need to delve into the reasons why she may be feeling the way she does. She is Looking for Something Casual Men aren’t the only ones seeking casual relationships. Whether it be due to a breakup, a busy schedule or her age, a lot of women don’t feel like dealing with a full-on relationship. Employ Reverse Psychology If you find yourself in a situation where she invites you up to your apartment, say something like this: “I’m not like other guys. A woman has to earn it if she wants to sleep with me.” “I’d love to, but I really need to build an emotional connection with someone before sleeping with them.” “That sounds great, but it’s too soon for me to take things to that level. I’m not easy, after all.” It’s Because You Might Be You’re Chasing Her Are you at this woman’s beck and call? When you chase after a girl, you’re basically giving her all the power. Another aspect of this involves being overly agreeable. Women don’t like it when guys turn into yes men and put them on a pedestal. You might think that you’re treating her like a princess, but in reality, you seem disingenuous. So If You’re Chasing Or Overly Agreeable, Use a CHALLENGE HER Strategy The thing is, you’re shooting yourself in the foot by always catering to her needs. Your kindness is likely going to be mistaken for weakness, which inevitably will land you a place in the dreaded friend-zone. Instead of always trying to please her, challenge her. Being assertive makes you appear confident, and confidence is one of the most attractive things to women. If You Think You’re Chasing or Overly Agreeable, MegaDate MegaDating is a dating process that involves going out with several people at the same time in order to diffuse energy by keeping your social calendar full. When you MegaDate, you will see firsthand that the dating world is full of great options. Understanding this will keep you from chasing after women, getting hung up on the idea of “the one”, and settling for the less than what you deserve. It’s Because She Thinks Your Clingy Even if a woman likes you, she’s going to be wary of getting into a relationship with you if you have all the familiar symptoms of a stage 5 clinger. She may think that you’re clingy if you do the following: - Bombard her with texts. - Try to hang out with her every night, or almost every night. - Stalk her social media often and/or like all of her posts. - Try to invite yourself to things she’s doing. - Invite her to everything, even guys’ nights. - You don’t shower her with compliments — you drown her in them. If that list sounds familiar, it’s time to make a serious change. Try reading the book “Attached” to learn about your potential anxious attachment style. Wait a Day or Two to Text Her Instead of texting her daily, wait a day or two to send a text. If you’ve been talking to her nonstop and go quiet for a couple days, it’s going to throw her for a loop. Once again, you are reversing her expectations, which will make her more attracted to you. Hang With Friends If this woman has been occupying your thoughts every waking minute, it’s time for a happy distraction. Stop dedicating all of your time and energy to her and schedule some appointments with friends. Going out with people you care about, will help bring you back to a confident, comfortable place. Do you Need an Objective Opinion About Your Situation? Romantic situations can be difficult to navigate no matter who you are. And oftentimes, we end up getting in our own way. In situations like this, it can be good to get an objective, expert opinion. That’s where I come in. As a dating coach, I’ve worked with hundreds of different men who come to me with a predicament just like this. If you’re looking for my personal help, head on over to my website at emlovz.com/book and book a new client session on my calendar. During our call, we’ll discuss your specific dilemma, create an action plan, and see if my 3-month coaching program could help you reach your dating and relationship goals. And don’t forget, keep up the good work because you deserve the perfect partner.