gerlach's video: What can you do about approach - avoid relationships

@What can you do about "approach - avoid" relationships?

A veteran therapist proposes that people who seek intimacy and then back away from it - repeatedly - are unaware of being controlled by two sets of personality subselves: One set wants closeness, the other set expects rejection and abandonment, and fears "too much" closeness. The result is confusing "approach-avoid" behavior cycles. The video ends with links to related videos, and to a free online self-improvement eb lesson" on how to optimize your inner and social frelationships: http://sfhelp.org/relate/guide4.htm

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This video was published on 2012-05-01 22:39:18 GMT by @gerlach on Youtube. gerlach has total 39.5K subscribers on Youtube and has a total of 182 video.This video has received 512 Likes which are higher than the average likes that gerlach gets . @gerlach receives an average views of 25.8K per video on Youtube.This video has received 58 comments which are lower than the average comments that gerlach gets . Overall the views for this video was lower than the average for the profile.

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