thenewkidd's video: Feminism and the Visible Argument Toxic Masculinity

If you are a feminist, I invite you to provide the visible argument I ask for. I am willing to entertain citations provided as proof that the visible argument exists. Follow up videos will be made if citations can be provided for these visible arguments in what I have learned. The main disagreement I have with this concept of this mythical "society" feminsts keep refering to as if we aren't masters of our own domain. As if society takes away our agency and then saying it is BECAUSE of this society that we are a certain way "passing the buck" as it were making it rarely the person's fault but it is "society" to blame. Even we as men need to be accountable for our actions... Equally along side women. Source info on Toxic Masculinity from Feminists: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KORLrUGIo4 (MTV) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DsTBBTKmMl8 (Claudia Boleyn) http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Toxic_masculinity http://www.salon.com/2015/06/12/toxic_masculinity_is_killing_men_the_roots_of_male_trauma_partner/ http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/freeing-men-toxic-masculinity/ http://www.bustle.com/articles/143644-6-harmful-effects-of-toxic-masculinity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzeXEQl9-ik (1:25-1:36) http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/09/fashion/masculinities-studies-stonybrook-michael-kimmel.html (article largely uses "masculinity" as a source of the worlds problems. It's men's fault). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hA-_ERbfuXE (2:48-3:24) Search Results for Toxic Femininity: http://everydayfeminism.com/?s="toxic+femininity" http://feministing.com/?s="toxic+femininity" http://www.feministcurrent.com/?s="toxic+femininity" http://www.alternet.org/search/site/%22toxic%20femininity%22 The only people that seems to have an equal discussion on this is anti-feminists (the "true" feminists) Feminists Boxing Traits into Gendered Boxes: http://www.wgac.colostate.edu/men-and-masculinities (so much BS) https://archive.org/stream/pdfy-vtHHZTa25FFgCH7p/Sarkeesian2010 /n0/mode/2up (Anita Sarceesian's "Comedy Gold" Master's Thesis)