Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC's video: What My Parents Did To Me Caused Trauma Abusive Parents Psychotherapy Crash Course

Being an adult in the world is hard enough as it is. Then incorporate the consequences you have to cope with of your childhood. It's difficult to say the least. Some adults have a very difficult adulthood and that isn't 100% because of something they did. It's because they grew up under abusive parents who engaged in destructive behaviors and carried destructive attitudes that set them back developmentally, emotionally, and psychologically. Abusive parents can engage in a host of behaviors that are difficult to nail down. That's why I did this video here: https://youtu.be/8UQj2cO0pWE Abusive parents almost always need psychotherapy and could benefit from medication to reduce their angry impulses. But even if abusive parents aren't angry and impulsive, medication can temper other symptoms such as anxiety, depression, restlessness, and hyperactivity. Sadly, it can be difficult to identify and treat abusive parents because their behaviors and attitudes tend to come out when they are at home and hidden behind closed doors. In this video, I discuss the consequences of growing up under an abusive parent. **BOOK MENTIONED: Bonded to the Abuser: How Victims Make Sense of Childhood Abuse https://www.amazon.com/dp/1442236906/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_-3rCFb5AH1XNX ***BOOK REVIEW: https://psychcentralreviews.com/2016/bonded-to-the-abuser-how-victims-make-sense-of-childhood-abuse/ Discussed in this video: Intro 0:00 -Benefits of today's video1:00 -What is the legal definition of abuse 1:49 -How has the definition of abuse changed 2:05 -Causing relational instability in adulthood 3:20 -Fluid boundaries and rigid boundaries 4:28 -Little to no insight 5:28 -Pseudo maturity 6:17 -Post traumatic stress 7:23 -Needy for love and affection 7:57 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My previous videos on inter-generational trauma: 1. 8 Signs of inter-generational trauma https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MU7all5364&t=344s 2. Signs you are suffering from inter-generational trauma https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sJab_h0Iho&t=149s 3. Am I impacted by inter-generational trauma https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0J08ZrOwtVY 4. Family Drama never ends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ny-46dm64Zo 5. Detoxing & Distancing 6. What do I love my abuser? https://youtu.be/Z1ThlkCWjRk ------------------------------------ Don't forget to subscribe for more videos: 👩‍💻 http://www.youtube.com/TamaraHtherapist *New videos Wednesday, Friday and/or Sunday, EST. "Bonus" videos may be posted at any time so remember to hit the bell button (🛎) on your screen to be notified when I post new videos! ---------------------------------------------------------- *New TRAUMA PLAYLIST: -https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_4Wq-LrWc3piWqkmeYaa7CIfeAC5-7LJ -Healing trauma in stages: https://youtu.be/JW1xWo6zfFw -https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_4Wq-LrWc3piWqkmeYaa7CIfeAC5-7LJ Music: ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– 🎵 Track Info: Track: Hip Hop Rap Instrumental (Crying Over You) by Chris Morrow 4 https://soundcloud.com/chris-morrow-3 Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0 http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b... Music promoted by Audio Library Watch: https://youtu.be/hiYs5z4xdBU Download: https://goo.gl/B2H2Lq ––––––––––––––––––––––––––– DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- ----Contact me------- I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally certified mental health therapist, with over 12 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at contact@anchoredinknowledge.com. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/therapisttee Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Blog - https://blogs.psychcentral.com/caregivers ______________________________________ keywords: what my parents did to me caused trauma will i ever heal from what my parents did what are the consequences of being abused as a child how do i heal from family trauma how do i know if i was abused indicators of abusive parents was my father abusive was my mother abusive how do i know that my family is abusive how do i escape abuse